Monday, January 29, 2007

Nuggets of Wisdom

This will be a post of quotes. Quotes from Tuesdays With Morrie by Mich Albom, a story about a dying college professor who, in his last days, acts as the bridge between life and death; sharing with us experiences from life's great journey, and telling us what to pack on the next.



Nugget of Wisdom no. 1

"What I'm doing now," he continued, his eyes still closed, "is detaching myself from the experience."

Detaching yourself?

"Yes. Detaching myself. And this is important - not just for someone like me, who is dying, but for someone like you, who is perfectly healthy. Learn to detach."

He opened his eyes. He exhaled. "You know what the Buddhists say? Don't cling to things, because everything is impermanent."

But wait, I said. Aren't you always talking about experiencing life? All the good emotions, all the bad ones?

"Yes."

Well, how can you do that if you're detached?

"Ah. You're thinking, Mitch. But detachment doesn't mean you don't let the experiences penetrate you. On the contrary, you let it penetrate you fully. That's how you are able to leave it."

Nugget of Wisdom no. 2

"Everyone knows they're going to die, but nobody believes it. If we did, we would do things differently."

So we kid ourselves about death, I said.

"Yes. but there's a better approach. To know you're going to die, and to be prepared for it at any time. That's better. That way you can actually be more involved in your life while you're living."

How can you ever be prepared to die?

"Do what the buddhists do. Every day, have a little bird on your shoulder that asks, 'Is today the day? Am I ready? Am I doing all I need to do? Am I being the person I want to be?'"

He turned his head to his shoulder as if the bird were there now.

"Is today the day I die?" he said.

Nugget of Wisdom no. 3

It is my unior year, 1978, when disco and Rocky movies are the cultural rage. We are in an unusual sociology class at Brandeis, something Morrie calls "Group Process." Each week we study the ways in which the student in the group interact with one another, how they respond to anger, jealousy, attention. We are human lab rats. More often than not, someone eneds up crying. I refer to it as the "touchy-feely" course. Morrie says I should be more open-minded.

On this day, Morrie says he has an exercise for us to try. We are to stand, facing away from our classmates, and fall backward, relying on another student to catch us. Most of us are uncomfortable with this, and we cannot let fo for more than a few inches before stopping ourselves. We laugh in embarrassment.

Finally, one student, a thin, quiet, dark-haired girl whom I notice almost always wears bulky white fisherman sweaters, crosses her arms over her chest, closes her eyes, leans back, and does not flinch, like one of those Lipton tea commercials where the model splashes into the pool.

For a moment, I am sure she is going to thump on the floor. At the last instant, her assigned partner grabs her head and shoulders and yanks her up harshly.

"Whoa!" several students yell. Some clap.

Morrie finally smiles.

"You see," he says to the girl, "you closed your eyes. That was the difference. Sometimes you cannot believe what you see, you have to believe what you feel. And if you are ever going to have other people trust you, you must feel that you can trust them, too - even when you're in the dark. Even when you're falling."

Thursday, January 25, 2007

Ello! I tell u no pok...NO POK!

Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Just for laughs



I didn't realise it then, but this was a premonition of the quality of food to come.



Quite obviously, French aint in vogue here. The money's on 'French Toasted' next.



This is darn funny-ner.



I sure hope the Coke flavour beats strawberry.

Sunday, January 21, 2007

2 New Toys Makes 1 Happy Girl

15 days in KL and 300km later, I'm back on my sunny island. 40 malay words and 2 new toys richer.

Toy No. 1



Imagine the car pictured above in purple... May I present my sleek Proton Gen 2 powered by Campro engine and designed by Lotus, the European sports car manufacturer which Proton devoured.

With its stylish curves and quirky colour, this baby makes its parents proud. However, the step from the aesthetics platform to the comfort one is rather steep;
driving it gave me a taste of what it would be like operating a motor boat.

Toy No. 2




The Sony Walkman NW-S205F is an intelligent mp3 player with a built in pedometer and calorie counter. Designed to fit snugly into the palm for singly-handed operation, this little beauty rates high in aesthetics and practicality. Ideal for sports fanatics who recall clumsily fumbling with a (insert name of mp3 here...perhaps Zen Micro?) while on the treadmill. Not fun.

Did I mention that this is an mp3 player? MP3 mind you! Because I've been told it resembles the male apparatus. Or the substitute for it.

Yesterday, when I told a friend that I went to get a Sony Walkman, she exclaimed, "What?!? From an antique shop??"

Fortunately, whatever the NW-S205F lacked in creativity of nomenclature or the tragic resemblance it bears to the shaft, it more than makes up for in operation.

As of 9.15pm 21st Jan 2007, this proud owner has nothing but praise for the gizmo.